Shaping
a young person into a positive
and productive adult can be
an enormous task, a nd
more and more mentorship programs
are taking on some of that
responsibility.
A life
is fragile, a nd
the life of a child can be
even more delicate, s o
when a young person fails
to get whats needed at home,
outside support, like a mentorship
program, can help pave the
way to a productive adulthood,
a nd
though various programs might
work differently, they all
have 1 common goal.
Brandon
Moore: "I
got suspended from school
yesterday. It
wasn't my fault. I was
on the no-pass list and the
teacher gave me a pass anyway,
and I got caught by security."
But this
is just a minor hitch in the
life of Brandon Moore. He's
nonchalant like any 19 year
old, but he's traveled
a longer, much harder road.
He's 1
month shy graduating high
school. It
took a lot for him to get
to this point, a
nd for the past 6 years,
the Black Child and Family
Institute in Lansing has given
him the support to make it
this far. It's
just 1 of the many mentorship
programs in mid-Michigan.
Its
mission for nearly 2
decades- shaping healthy children
and families through skills
training and community building.
Ernie Boon
ran BCFI for years.
Ernie Boone,
BCFI former director: "B randon
is a work in progress, you
can't call him a success,
you can say we've been
successful with him, because
he's still here, still
involved, still on this side."
Children
grow into the adults around
them, a nd
if they can't get good
role models at home, mentorship
programs can fill in the gaps.
Gary Stollak,
Psychologist, MSU: "W
hat's important about
these mentors, and that becomes
a problem for many organizations,
is we don't need them
for 3 weeks, we need
them for 3-5 years, we need
them for 10 years."
Brandon
Moore: "I
know I've changed. When I
came here, I was really
unfocused, I was doing
my own thing, trying to do
what everyone else was doing.
I stepped back 1
day, I just realized
it's not about what everybody
else is doing, it's about
what I want to do."
Everyone
needs a positive role model,
a nd
young adults with experiences
far different then Brandon
get results just as powerful.
Ryan Menefee:
"I t's
definitely given people my
age a positive way of thinking,
that we can do good things
with our lives and we can
help others."
Salhiah
Coppedge has seen changes
in herself and others.
Salihah
Copedge, mentor: "They've
changed in character, they've
changed in school, some came
for tutoring, they are getting
good grades and their whole
outlook on life is better,
and it's great to see
that when they come to BCFI."
But not
all programs are alike, a
nd
while Big Brother's Big
Sisters has a different approach,
the end result is the same.
Ed Hagen,
Big Brothers Big Sisters Executive
Director: "T
hese little moments that create
big magic in the life of a
child, it's really reaching
to the future 1 child
at a time."
They even
commissioned a study to look
at their methods, Bbut
it's not just about 1
positive role model.
Ernie Boone:
"W
hat young people get here
is a group of people who care
about them, who know them,
who support them, period.
The people here at the institute
are kind of sort of a family."
And for
some young adults, that lasting
relationship can make all
the difference.
Brandon
Moore: "The way that I
can say I'm better than 5
years ago, more so then anybody
saying it, is I can see
it. A
lot of people said I
wasn't going to graduate
and make it to where I
am, but I'm here."
Big Brother's
Big Sisters is facing a unique
circumstance this year. While
they usually have a waiting
list of young people, i t's
the 1st time they have a waiting
list of mentors who need little
brother and little sisters.
For more info., follow these
links:
Black Child and Family Institute:
517-487-3775 Institute
Big Brothers Big
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